Anal Sex Information
Anal sex has been regarded as one of the biggest taboos in
sexual history, yet millions of men and women actively participate in and enjoy
anal sex due to the pleasure this erogenous zone is capable of creating. The anus
ranks as one of the top pleasure points on the body due to it’s
close relation to the genitals and high concentration of nerve endings. These
nerve endings are interconnected with the pelvic muscles and contract
rhythmically during an orgasm causing intense pleasure.
If you are trying anal sex for the first time, it is
important to do it with someone you feel comfortable with and trust. Before you
begin, you should know your limits and have realistic expectations. We have all
seen the women in the XXX films take it like a champion, remember that there's
more going than we can see...
Tip No.1 Preparation & Relaxation
Preparation and relaxation is the key to a
successful encounter, it is important to realize that you probably are not going to be very productive the first time. You
should only go as far as you feel comfortable with and both partners should
refuse to tolerate any pain. Relax…always try to stay as relaxed as possible.
Anal tension is the most common cause of anal discomfort during sex, this tension can be relieved by touching the anus and
becoming more familiar with it. An ideal time to explore the anal opening is
while taking a shower or bath.
Tip No. 2 Play Safe
There are serious health issues that you should be aware
of before you begin anal sex. What ever you use in the rectum should never
touch anything else. Don’t ever take the penis or sex toy out of the
rectum and put it into vagina, doing so can cause a serious infection and other
complications. After any type of anal play be sure to
change your condom, wash the relevant body parts and keep your toys clean.
In addition to hygiene, STDs are also a
major concern with anal sex. This is not limited to just AIDS, herpes, genital
warts, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc. which can all be transmitted through anal sex.
Safe sex should always be practiced when giving anal sex. It’s not worth the
risk to you or your partner.
Tip No. 3 Clear The Path
Before engaging in anal sex, the receiver
should have a complete bowel movement. If they do not you may encounter far more
fecal matter than you might have liked.
To ensure all fecal matter it removed from the rectum and to aid in
relaxation prior to the encounter, they may wish to use an anal douche. Click
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Tip No. 4 Lube, Lube & More Lube
One of the most important things to
remember is that the anus doesn’t secrete it’s own
lubrication like the vagina, therefore it is important to make sure you have
plenty of your favorite lubricant on hand. This will make the initial
penetration much more enjoyable for you and your partner. We recommend using
Climax, Wet, Ky Jelly & Astroglide. The more lubricant that it used the better it
is! If using a condom make sure you use a water based lube, it is safe for
penetration and is not damaging to a condom.
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Anal-eze is a specialty lube
designed for anal sex that includes an anesthetic to numb the sensation and
make anal sex less painful. It will relax the sphincter so penetration will be
more comfortable. Please
remember that pain is a way of your body telling you that something's wrong. If
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Tip No. 5 Start Small
There are many ways to introduce anal
eroticism, but do not start with a penis! It is best to start small and then
gradually increase in size. Fingers are excellent to start with,
they can introduce your partner to the delights of anal sex. Try touching the
anal opening or inserting a finger or two during masturbation, oral sex or
intercourse. As you partner begins to feel comfortable with your fingers you
may then want to try a small butt plug, anal beads or a toy. Check
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Tip No. 6 Relax
Chronic anal tension is a common cause of
anal discomfort during sex. Commonly, when a finger, object or penis is
introduced into the anus, the anal muscles go into spasm, as if fighting off an
invasion. This tension can be relieved by plenty of leisurely touching of the
anus and the desire for the sexual encounter. Deep breathing also affects the
anal muscles. Tensing the anus and then letting go is another way of learning
to relax it. Pain will result if the partners do not wait for these muscles to
relax. As you now know, maximum anal pleasure is reached when no pain is
experienced. Self-protection on the part of the receiving partner involves
being ready to say "no" until he or she is ready to proceed.
And don’t
forget to enjoy your newfound pleasure!
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